We love receiving oral sex but sometimes guys aren’t very good at it. So the question that most of us want to know is, what can I do to improve his skills without hurting his feelings?
The only way to have a truly satisfying sex life is to let your guy know what does and doesn’t turn you on. And, despite your fear of hurting his feelings, most men appreciate in-the-sack advice because knowing they’re getting you off gets them off, too. So ask for what you want. That doesn’t mean flat-out telling him that his oral techniques, well, suck. But, next time he’s giving you some below-the-belt TLC, say something like, “It would feel so good if you’d lick me a little harder,” or faster, or whatever the case may be. Or, you could suggest playing a sexy game of follow-the-leader. The rules: First, you go down on him using the kinds of tongue movements you’d like him to use on you. Then, when it’s his turn, ask him to pleasure you the same way.
You can also teach him how to please you by using body language. If you want more pressure, push your pelvis toward his mouth or nudge his head in closer; for less pressure, move slightly away from him or gently push his head back a little bit. If he isn’t hitting the bull’s-eye, make a V with your index and middle finger and place it around the spot you want him to lick. More ways to direct him with your digits: Pull back the skin on your clitoral hood, which will encourage him to lavish attention on your clitoris, or cover it with your finger if it’s too sensitive for direct contact.
Of course, it’s just as important to clue him in when he’s doing something right. So tell him when he makes a move that sends shivers up your spine. Just saying, “That feels sooo good,” or letting out a satisfied moan willdo the trick. It shouldn’t take him long to catch on. And when he does, there’ll be a passion payoff for both of you.Until next time Peacccceeeee!
(Source: oralsex)
I was just browsing through the internet, and I came across this article, written for men by a man. I thought it was quite interesting for Ladies to read what kind of woman you DON’T want to be if you wanna catch a mate. Enjoy ;)
When pursuing your lady, use this as a guide—The Player’s list of five types of women you should avoid. The Player has encountered many types of women in his existence, so who better to make a list than someone who’s been through the entire book? Don’t worry though, this list isn’t gospel—it simply offers a few guidelines to keep you from meeting Dr. Jekyll, but dating Mrs. Hyde… proceed at your own discretion.
The Smart-Ass
Every man likes an articulate woman, a girl who can voice her opinion, sound intelligent and impress your friends with a philosophical debate on the downward spiral of modern politics. OK, maybe that’s pushing it a bit, but a woman with verbal confidence can be a hell of a turn-on. But let’s be realistic—while it’s always nice to date someone who is charismatic and well-versed, it’s something quite different to date a woman who beats the opinionated war drum.
